Hello Lovelies! Tis the season!
Haven’t read our sexy Desire trip stories yet? Have you always wondered what the resort is like? Maybe you have been there several times but like to read up on what others have experienced there? Be sure to do so here for fun stories and sexy memories of our first time there and being naked all week! #sexyswanilla
Our last night & last dance at Desire!
This is our version of a snapshot that we shared together on our last night at Desire. Snapshots are a great story or memory that Mr. & Mrs. Jones from the We Gotta Thing podcast have been sharing, and we wanted to share ours.
|Dancing our night away|
We have so many memories from our first trip to Desire but this one really touched our hearts and made us feel like newlyweds after close to 20 years of marriage!
As we heard Mr. & Mrs. Jones say on their podcast We Gotta Thing recently in talking about their trip to Desire this summer, they said something just stuck with us and we related to.
Desire Trip Report – Part 4 – New Friends & New Experiences
Some other memories of our first trip to Desire was meeting new people at the resort who became fast friends by the end of the trip. There are a lot of friendly and open minded people at a place like Desire, and many people are easy to talk to and open to having a conversation. Some may seem unapproachable because they may seem like “seasoned” swingers or lifestylers. Some may just know people from previous trips or just talking to others that they met there a couple days prior.
We ran into the Texas Couple around late morning and ended up hanging out with them for most of the day in the pool. After a little bit, they introduced us to some sexy new friends they met from Brazil. What a great couple! She had the cutest smile and personality, and he was a true gentleman that you immediately realized was a good guy. We all shared many drinks and our lovely waitress Sylvia hooked us up with our new favorite drinks, the electric lemonade. As soon as our glasses were near empty she would be right there with a tray full of cold tasty drinks! After a few minutes, we noticed a couple more sexy couples and someone from our group had met them earlier. They were a sexy couple from Las Vegas and another sexy couple from Argentina and we welcomed them with hugs and kisses to our group. At this point, there are five couples with another 1-2 couples having drinks with us on and off and talking to other friends nearby. We had been in the pool at this point for close to 2.5 hours and knew the foam party would be starting about 2pm. It was about 1:45pm when Mrs. Swanilla and I looked at our friends and said: “oh shit, we forgot to eat lunch!” With all of their encouragement, they convinced us to just have another drink and eat lunch after the foam party. Not that it was hard to convince us to stay with so many sexy naked people in our group.
|Many sexy memories were made here!|
Another great memory of our first trip to Desire was meeting new people at the resort who became friends by the end of the trip. As we were all getting in the hot tub we see our two other friends from earlier and they welcomed us. There was a circle of us in the smaller part of the hot tub. At one point there were about 5-6 couples all welcoming each other and getting to know each other with hugs,kisses and oh so much more! Many were from different countries and we joked around that we had our own United Nations welcoming committee in the hot tub. We had Mexico, Brazil, Argentina, Colombia and the great states of Texas, Georgia, Nevada, and Michigan representing the United States. Later I remembered our first trip to the XClub in Toronto and of their host gave us a tour of the club, and we were so nervous. He explained ‘in the playroom the white couch off to the side was neutral territory and doesn’t get involved, ya know like Switzerland’. Just a fun memory with so much fun happening!
|Mrs. Swanilla ready to party!|
At one point, all of the ladies were kissing passionately and taking turns just having very hot moments. Most of the guys were watching as Mrs. Brazil was in the middle of everyone and she was being slowly passed around to each lady in our group. She is very sexy and such a sweet person! It was all playful fun and I felt we all were respectful of each other anyone’s boundaries. As others started to join in, I noticed out of the corner of my eye that Mrs. Swanilla was kissing our new friends from Argentina, a lot. Not just her either, but both of them. Even though I was very close by, she turned to me and said “Mr. Swanilla, this is the first time that I have felt an attraction to both people of a couple!” as she proceeded to kiss both of them back and forth. This turned me completely on and got me very hot, and if Mrs. Swanilla wanted to take it any further with them I was totally ready! There was something about Mrs. Argentinas eyes that were very sexy and sensual! She was very sexy in many ways and he was a true gentleman.
|Mr. Swanilla ready for the night|
After a fun afternoon with new friends, a lot of drinks and the evening fast approaching we decided to head back to our room to have some alone time, reconnect, shower and get ready for dinner and also the theme night – Dress to Impress! And boy did Mrs. Swanilla look very sexy & stunning in her red dress!
After a nice dinner just the two of us, we proceed to get ready for the sexy night ahead of us. There was a fun band playing and we danced on the open area on the outside patio where everyone hangs out before the nightclub opens that night. We said hello to new friends and after a drink we all proceeded to head to the disco for a fun night of dancing and more.
Day 4 Coming soon! Stay tuned…..
Here is Part #2 of our Desire Trip Report:
|Mrs. Swanilla sneaking a nap after a day at the pool|
We ended up in the hot tub again in the afternoon and really met a lot of great people from all over. There were a few couples from Oklahoma, Kansas, North Carolina and California that we hit it off with. Just fun conversations. Some about life and everyday talk. But it was fun when all of us share stories about people in their vanilla world that may know or suspect things. Many of the couples said their grown kids were suspecting things and they just played it off. One thing that was nice was the couple from North Carolina. We chatted for awhile, and then hung out with the Mr. of the group for a bit. He was a really nice guy. What was nice is that they could tell how “new” we were, and he gave us a lot of friendly advice on how to handle certain things, how to take our time, the differences that couples may have on approaching certain things in the lifestyle. It was very refreshing to talk things over with him. Podcasts are great, but it was very fun and welcoming to be able to bounce ideas off him from a guy’s perspective and he shared a lot of what has worked and not worked for them for over 20+ years of being in the lifestyle. We honestly forgot to get their info or screen names for any sites they belong to, as it would be fun to stay in touch with them every once in awhile. Again, even if the chemistry isn’t there or the timing isn’t right. You truly do make friends at Desire that you could stay in touch with for a long time. If we showed up next year and they were there, we would feel comfortable sharing a drink and catching up more.
One of the things that we also enjoy about the conversations is that we can all joke around about things at so many levels and no one seems to be offended. I know personally I have joked around with sexual jokes with vanilla friends and could tell someone was offended or uncomfortable. However, it’s just different around lifestyle people and at Desire. One fun memory was we were in the hot tub talking with a few couples, and there was a guy who was rather well-endowed as he was walking by to get a drink from the bar. Now, he wasn’t hard or engaged in sexual activity, to say it bluntly, the guy just had a huge dick! LOL! The lady of the California couple said out loud as he walked by “that thing is huge! Keep it away from me! No way!” We all were laughing and just having a good time, just playful banter and we felt right at home.
As we were talking to couples in the hot tub they asked where we were having dinner that night. We had reservations for Sahlo. We were told it was more of a fancy, sensual type of restaurant so we made reservations for that night. We didn’t know but a few people told us to plan on at least two hours or more for the dinner. At first it seemed overwhelming to hear that. But it was actually a very nice restaurant and had a great vibe and the service was excellent! One thing we learned is when making reservations, is to make it for a party of 4 or 6 in case you meet a couple or two and want to have more a quiet conversation over a great dinner. And if you don’t meet anyone, or your mood changes to just wanting to have a quiet dinner as a couple, then you just go to dinner and have a good time.
We had another great time at the disco and theme night. It’s a lot of fun walking to the main bar/open area outside while having a drink and a little music and dancing and taking in everyone’s outfits for theme night. It just seems more fun to dress up each night (for us at least). This night was sexy uniform night and we went as a cop and sexy prisoner. When we got to the dance floor we watched a professional show happening. Then before we realized it we found ourselves not only in the sexy uniform contest with five other couples, but they had us go first as we did our sexy dance and flirting. Mrs. Swanilla was so nervous at first. I had the attitude of fuck it, let’s live it up and have fun! What’s funny is we noticed a couple we hadn’t seen yet that was also in the competition. They were a very sexy couple and we will refer to them as The Texas Couple in any posts (hi guys if you’re reading – kisses!). As everyone was having fun during the competition and just dancing the night away throughout the night, we decided to sneak away to the playroom and have our own fun! There were a handful of couples in there, but enough room where we could have fun and just find our groove. We both enjoy a playroom that is a sexy environment and you can hear and see all the sexiness going on. When we started playing with each other it was very hot! Hearing the sounds around us from the other couples and the mood was there. However, as we got lost in our own play, we looked up at one point and noticed we were the only couple in there which isn’t that big of deal. But just then we saw a lady come in and start cleaning the room and the mood pretty much got killed. It was all good as we decided to head to the hot tub and take a dip and maybe have some late night fun there!
Even though Mrs. Swanilla and I didn’t finish our playroom fun in the hot tub that night, we ended up making new friends and having a great time. The Texas couple explained that no one knew they were there except one vanilla friend they trusted and we all shared stories of what resort we all told our friends we were headed to. It’s naturally very fun to have great people that you can all share a common sexy secret with. Part of me sometimes wonders if we have that one friend or one normal couple that we could share our sexy secret with? Someone we could trust, that has an open mind and wouldn’t judge us. Someone we could send funny text messages too while at a place like Desire. Not sure if that would ever happen? The only couple we could think of is a lesbian couple that we have trusted and known for years. But still not sure we want to ever go down that road of cross-contamination of mixing vanilla life with lifestyle experiences. I know if we had them over for dinner and told them our sexy secrets, with almost 99.99% certainty they would say “we figured you two would do something like that” and that they would be able to keep a secret. Just don’t know if we ever would be able to do that or share our secret with a vanilla couple or friend. I think that’s why we felt comfortable talking to so many people at the resort. We can all share a sexy secret together. One podcaster The Swinging MILF told us that she has confided in a vanilla friend or two about their sexy secret and it has helped them to have an outlet to share their thoughts with. As we were talking at the bar we all talked about how we had to take those boring normal (vanilla) photos to share with family/friends and were giving tips on good place to take them at around the resort! As we were chatting with the Texas Couple and others, we started asking if they too play The Game? Almost immediately we all started sharing stories and fun times of trying to pick people out. The Texas Couple told us they knew they spotted someone going to Desire from their first flight, before their connection flight to Cancun as the lady had on 4” high heels and looked very sexy! Sure enough they said they saw her later that night at the disco!
Day 3 Coming soon….
Hugs & Kisses,
Mr. & Mrs. Swanilla
|We got naked and loved it!|
|We finally arrive!|
|Ready to take the plunge together|
We just found out that we have been nominated for Best Lifestyle Blog at the Annual Lifestyle Awards. We are beyond humbled and honored that someone not only nominated us but feel we bring something to the community. We still consider ourselves newbies and are learning our way around The Lifestyle as we discover what works for us and what doesn’t.
There are so many great blogs that just to be in the same category with the others is already something special. There are also great categories with Best Lifestyle Podcast, Best Lifestyle Resort, Best Lifestyle Clubs, Best Lifestyle Cruises, and Best Lifestyle Educators,
Mrs. & Mr. Swanilla
|So many great memories from this hot tub!|