Wow! We can’t believe it is spring and our last blog was just prior to the holidays!!!! Where does the time go?
Our vanilla life has been very busy the first several months of 2013 and we just didn’t have a lot of time for extra stuff. Just laid low for the winter but we did catch up on a lot of things in our sexy life including a lot of fun nights in front of the fire place. We completed Season 2 of SWING on Playboy. Since we gave a review of the first season of Swing, we will post our thoughts to the second season of Swing as well in the near future. We also started watching a few other shows on Playboy such as Sexcetera which is usually an hour long show on various topics including destination vacations, bondage, kink, etc. We also watch the show Foursome occasionally as well. This show can be pretty funny. In short, it’s made up of 4 ‘attractive’ types, 2 guys and 2 girls. They put them in a mansion for 24 hours, get them liquored up and do games and stuff to break the ice. They usually go out to a club or private party to learn about a topic at hand related to something sexy. Many of the guys come across as douchey and right out of Jersey Shore! We would normally watch this show first to help ease into the mood and there are some real funny moments and there are some sexy people on the show. It seems for every 4 shows maybe 1 show will just hit our mood right. Watching all of these shows, and listening to several podcasts of course made it very easy to get in the mood and make time to get funky and freaky on a weekly basis! You ALWAYS have to make time for each other.
Speaking of getting in the mood, one thing we would like to do in our blog is post a song that helps set the mood for us. We love to be spontaneous with each other, but once you have kids, the reality is you tend to plan out at least a few things related to your sex life. One thing we do is schedule date nights, which means we’re going to have sex! We have small children that are still at younger ages. So we make it point to know that every Friday night we put the kids in bed a few minutes early, have our bedroom clean, and set up to help set the mood (candles, wine, music, toys) and of course we both make an extra effort to wear something sexy/hot and get in bed with a bottle of wine. This is when we try to catch up on shows such as Swing, Foursome, Sexcetera, or even some vanilla shows that just give us that first hour into our date night to help decompress, let the night slowly build and take its course.
However, once play time starts, we really like to have sexy music on in the background. We don’t mean Kenny G (as Ross pointed out in Friends one time), and it took a while to find the right mixture of songs. We didn’t want to listen to artists/bands that we may listen to during the workday, or made us think of something that didn’t help the mood. So we started looking up sexy music on ITunes and YouTube and found various artists and music that we may have not listened to in the past. A lot of it is instrumental, in the electronic/acid jazz/funk genres. So what we will do is try to post a link on each post to hear a song that has been helpful in getting us in the mood. Try out the songs and see if it does anything at playtime for you! Feel free to post comments or email us on your thoughts or share other music that has been sexy to you.
This week’s song is Ay Ay Ay by Dzihan & Kamien
We also want to give a shout out to a cool Lifestyle podcast Swingin’ Around . They are based here in Michigan and we have been listening to them on a regular basis and feel they are onto something cool. We chatted through email a few times and they gave us a few tips on some clubs/events we were didn’t realize that were in our area. Be sure to check them out on ITunes or at Swingin’ Around http://swingin-around.blogspot.com/
We have had a lot of fun with each other and do enjoy our blog and hope you do too. We do have several topics/stories in the works that we will be posting in the near future. Let’s just say that we have had a lot of fun with each other and look forward to sharing our stories soon.
Until our next post, remember, take your sex beyond your bedroom, it may lead to good things!
|Have a Swingin’ Holiday Season!|
|The Lovely Anna David|
|Come and unwrap your gift!|
Oct 31, 2012 – Halloween is here.
As you know from our previous posts and our blog we are busy parents and we have a lot going on. This Halloween would be a busier one as well. We have made the mistake of not getting out of work early enough in years past and had that rushing around feeling, we both hate that. We both left work early this year to get things in order before the kids came home from school and our house was full of neighborhood kids and their parents having a few adult beverages before we all headed out to walk the neighborhood in the cold weather.
We both found ourselves alone in the house with no kids, no neighbors and no kids running around. We just smiled as we looked at each other. As we ran upstairs we decided to get under the covers to warm up, and turned on some cable porn. We found one that looked promising, a few things happening on the TV that sparked an interest and then, the quality acting kicked in! Nothing like bad acting in what was an erotic movie that made us both laugh! We are both so done with cable porn, but it is fun to laugh at!
|I have a large meat lovers delivery here|
The wife decided she wanted her own treat as it was Halloween. I wasn’t sure what she had in mind until she pulled out her favorite toy. She was really enjoying herself and had me take over with holding it in the right spot. As she moaned louder and louder she had me get up on my knees as she was laying on her back so she could suck me while she warmed herself up before we fucked! After a few minutes of getting a wonderful blowjob from the wife I could tell it was starting to feel way too good! I realized that the more she was clinching to her toy and watching her body move as she was ready to cum, her mouth felt even better! Before I knew it she had made herself cum three times with her toy going in and out of her while she was sucking me faster and harder. She just gave me that look with her sexy eyes with my cock in her mouth. No words exchanged, as this is one of the few times where as a guy, I can be a mind reader! 🙂
I knew she wasn’t stopping as she wanted to taste me and was going to make me cum any second. Within another minute her mouth was filling up with my hot cum and she couldn’t get enough. Even when I thought I was done, she kept sucking my cock so she would get every last drop!
Once we finished I just looked at her and said wow! “How’s that for a treat on Halloween baby?” She smiled and just kept sucking and sucking until there was nothing left!
We fell onto the bed, cuddled, laughed, and smiled about how hot that was and how bad that movie was! Definitely a great time to hold us over until date night a couple days later and a great way to help relax for that cold night of walking around with neighbors, a wagon full of mommy juice, beer and drinks for the dad. Little did I realize that is how our parents got through it 30+ years ago too! I always thought my parents hot cider smelled funny. Now I know it was filled with rum!
|Perhaps better cable porn?|
Hello! So sorry it took so long to leave our review of our first time at swingers club! We were planning to post our review sooner of our night, but just didn’t have time with all the touching & playing, and replaying that night in our heads the last several weeks!
Our first time to a swingers club was very sexy, exciting, and passionate! Because it was so exciting and in reality a big step in exploring our comfort levels, we have a more in depth and detailed blog post this time. We feel if there are other couples that have thought about doing this or have done it, then its fun to share this with them. There are several podcasts and blogs that have been very helpful to us the last couple years, so we felt the need to share our experience with others.
|View of the bar/dance area|
|The Hallway to the private rooms & open area in the distance|
|The view from the couch!|
One of our fantasies for a long time has been to attend a lifestyle club or resort. Not to swing, but to enjoy the views, watch others have fun, and have fun in front of others as well. But we have had a lot of questions on expectations from others, rules, etc. There is a resort in Cancun – ‘Desire‘ that we have heard about for a long time, and have listened to several podcasts on Bath Talk Weekly with Kidder & Jade about it. There are a few others around the country and Caribbean, and we have talked about going to one someday. We have had a few concerns about the vibe and atmosphere at some of the places but have heard a lot more positive feedback then negative. However, we agreed that in order to go that far away from home, we should dip our toes in the water closer to home first to find out our comfort levels.
So we are headed to a lifestyle club and are very excited! We have been reading a lot of great reviews and are excited for our first visit. The club we are going to is a dance club that is open to couples and single females and the occasional single male is allowed in on certain nights. In the back there is another area that has an on-premise play area. We are excited because there are both private rooms and an open area where couples are on several beds just having a really good time. We have talked to so many people that have attended and said it was just a great experience and that it really is very sensual and a lot of fun.The thought of getting all dressed up and having a fun time together is really hot. It makes us hotter thinking about what may happen later in the night. Stripping down and having fun together in front of others.
We have enjoyed going to strip clubs a handful times together as well. Once was with a bunch of friends and it was more for a laugh and a few drinks. We both got a lap dance together, and it was fun. But because we had friends there that were more on the vanilla side, we felt like we couldn’t enjoy it the way we wanted to. Another time we found ourselves in another city on vacation and decided to go to a club that was a little more upscale and just the two of us. This was definitely a fun time! We each had some drinks and just enjoyed the views of the dancers and bought each other a couple dances. It was very hot watching each other have a dance. To make it even hotter, we each picked out the girls that had to give us a dance. When we got back to our hotel room later in the night, we had some of the hottest sex just thinking about what we just had seen!
We have enjoyed strip clubs but felt we have moved on. They still may be fun once in a while, but we feel we are ready to turn it up a notch. We will post soon about our journey and see what happens with attending the lifestyle club. But just the thought of having fun with each other, while watching others and hearing and seeing the sounds, slaps, moans and screams really gets us both very hot!
Can’t wait to share our experiences with all of you!
|“Are you ready dear?”|
The night started just right! We both were tired from a long week of crazy schedules and demands. So we got the kids to bed asap, and finally were able to relax!
There is something about getting in bed, with a bottle of wine, and having some good conversations with each other. After talking for a bit, we decided to watch one of our favorite shows, No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain. We really enjoy just watching and learning about other cultures and their food. After watching our show and finishing a bottle of a nice red blend, the mood struck!
I go to the bathroom and freshen up. To my surprise I come out of the bathroom and there is my hot wife laying on the bed with the lights off, nice music playing on the Ipod and her watching a very hot amateur porn on our laptop. I slowly crawled into bed next to her, not knowing what to expect. She said that she wanted to watch the video with me. What’s hot is the video was of 4 couples all playing in the same room, couples watching other couples, and just playing in front of each other more than with each other. We both got excited and hot watching everything happen, the sounds of the sucking, the moans, the screams and the slapping from behind all just got us really hot! Maybe because what we saw made us think of a really hot fantasy that we both share that may come true in the near future. 🙂
It didn’t take long and we were kissing passionately, touching, and teasing. After grinding against each other, I just started kissing her body slowly as she pushed me down lower and lower until I reached her hot pussy just wanting to be licked. She slowly spread her legs and the wetness looked like she had already came, but she didn’t, she was just really turned on. I love eating her pussy, and she knows it! As I was enjoying her taste, she just keep moaning and told me how good it felt. I told her just to relax and not hold back if that is what she wanted. She responded with, “I want to feel your hot cum inside of me, Fuck me now!” I stood up and she proceeded to lay on the edge of the bed as I stood up ready to fuck her. She grabbed my hard cock and just started sucking and sucking getting it nice and ready. She knows she has this technique she does on me with her tongue that can make me cum really fast. After a few minutes of teasing my cock, she turned around so her pussy was at the edge of the bed, so I could fuck her while standing up. Once she slowly put it in, I could tell how wet she really was! It felt so good I didn’t know how long I would last. We started to fuck nice and slow until our bodies were in sync with one another. As I was leaning over her to kiss her, she realized I was in the perfect position to suck on her tits. Ohhhhh, the sounds of her being fucked while her nipples are being sucked is such a nice sound!
Just as I start pumping her faster, I feel her pussy start to tighten up and then her hold body. Knowing she is about to lose it and just start cumming, I decide to just go faster so she loses it. I love the feeling my cock gets when she comes all over it. I can just feel the warmth of her wetness all over me. I could tell how good it felt not just by the sounds of her screams while cumming, but by the look on her face. As she was done cumming, I just started exploring her body more while fucking her passionately. I sucked her tits more and more as I was feeling really good from her body, not to mention the wine also made us feel good too. Within a few minutes we fucking harder and harder and then she noticed my body start to tighten up as well. When this happens she likes to move her legs just in the right position, as she knows how good it feels and it makes me lose my load. Sure enough, I started cumming inside of her and it just felt so good. Once I was done cumming, we had very passionate kisses knowing we had another great night in the bedroom!
Until next time……………