Our First Hotel Takeover

Hello lovelies,
We hope you are doing well and staying sexy this spring! We are gearing up for some sexy summer fun ourselves with our first trip to Naughty In N’awlins fast approaching. We are excited to see old friends and meet new ones. We have had some fun meeting people ahead of time on various platforms and the theme nights seem like a lot of fun. On top of being in such a fun city that we have never been to.

As we approach summer and sexy fun we thought we would share our experience of our first hotel takeover. Since we are going to Naughty In N’awlins this year for the first time, which is a massive hotel takeover with a few thousand people. We thought it was a good idea to go to a smaller hotel takeover to get a feel for it first.

We attended our first hotel party last October for their sexy Halloween party. It was a change from what we have done for the past few years of going to a sexy lifestyle club for Halloween. This time we decided to go to the hotel takeover and weren’t sure what to expect. Halloween is one of the biggest holidays and nights for those in the lifestyle. You get to dress in really provocative costumes and outfits without judgement. This happens in the vanilla world as well, but there is more naughtiness with the sexy lifestyle halloween parties.  

As we drove to the hotel which was a few hours away from us, we discussed ideas of what the hotel may be like and enjoyed catching up on some of our favorite lifestyle podcasts. When we arrived at the hotel it was a cold and rainy afternoon. The type of weather that if we weren’t going out, we would have cuddled up on the couch at home in front of the fireplace. However, as we arrived and noticed sexy couples walking in from the parking lot, with a lot of smiles, costumes in bags, coolers, and security at the door ensuring the right people were entering the hotel we felt a lot more at home and at ease. If you aren’t aware of what a hotel takeover is, it’s when the hotel is closed to the general public for a private event and open only to those attending/staying at the hotel for the event. They have private security at the doors to ensure families aren’t walking in with small kids.

Once we got to our room we got a few things set up, and decided to go walk around the hotel to see the pool, ballroom where the party would be later that night and went to the restaurant in the hotel to have an early dinner. It was the perfect fall afternoon! Stuck inside with like-minded friends, staying warm at the restaurant with a tasty beverage and watching college football while it was so cold and rainy out, while excited to get our sexy costumes on later. As people made their way into the restaurant, there was some nerves with people and some you can tell we’re really nervous. It may have been their first lifestyle event. There was some sexiness in the air with a lot of couples checking out other couples from the distance, sharing smiles from across the bar with a some friendly flirting as well. We chatted with a couple that was somewhat local to us back home and they told us about some friends joining them later that night. It was great to also meet a few couples that we had chatted with online ahead of time. This is fun as you have a familiar face to talk to. When talking with new couples, we realized there were some hiccups that day with the hotel. There had been a room that flooded and went down from the higher floor to the main floor, damaging several rooms in the hotel. This caused several rooms to be out of order and there were several couples that were relocated to their sister property about a mile down the road. While they thought of a solution, it was an inconvenience for those that were being shuttled back and forth between the hotels. We realized this later in the night. Details below.


A short time later we made our way back to our room to relax, have a drink and start getting ready for the night. We went as a sexy daisy duke and cowboy theme look this year. The pics are fun but aren’t able to share!

Always good to enjoy Tito’s and more as you get ready for a sexy night

We make our way to the party and see a lot of sexy people in the hallways, parties happening in various hotel rooms and just a fun time all around. We made our way to the floor known as the party floor. We ran into the couple we saw earlier at the restaurant and met their friends. There were about 5-6 couples that we found ourselves hanging out with. There was an attraction to a couple of them for sure. Especially between the ladies! We had some really nice conversations about the lifestyle as one of the couples this was indeed their first time doing something like this, and another couple had been to one other smaller event. We shared stories of Desire, lifestyle clubs we have been and chatted about life in general. We met a lot of fun people on the party floor, checked out many rooms that were decorated, and some that went all out with their decorations.

A short time later we all made our way to the ballroom area where the bar and dance floor was set up. It was great the way the party hosts had things laid out with the lights, music, dance floor and a fun cage for the ladies to get in and dance. When we found ourselves chatting with a couple, it was very easy to go out the side door to the hallway to have a little more quieter exchange with new friends. As we all danced and had some sexy flirting going on while on the dance floor, the gentlemen all left to go to the bar to get refills for the ladies. One gentleman was chatting with me and let me know in a very nice way, that there was an attraction but they were new. I let him know that in our journey and experiences the best approach is take things slow, don’t rush into anything and realize that the ladies run the lifestyle. We head back to the dance floor and realize the talk we just shared as the husbands went right out of the window. We noticed Mrs. Swanilla had her daisy duke shirt off and was topless on the dance floor, the ladies were kissing each other passionately and there were a lot of things happening. I mentioned to the gentlemen of our new friends, “Looks like they hit it off “. We all danced and had fun and at one point we look over and notice just a few feet off the dance floor, there is this guy dressed up in Halloween costume and notice two ladies kissing him and each other. We noticed how sexy it was and turned our backs for a moment. We look back a minute or two later and noticed both ladies going down on him as he was standing there just enjoying the moment, and still dancing somewhat in place. It was both a hot and unique scene to describe.

One thing we enjoyed about the hotel takeover party, was that it was very easy to head to our room to use the restroom, freshen up and grab drink. We took a break from the ballroom and walked around the party floor a few floors above us. There were some games being played and the crowd wasn’t as large as before the ballroom opened up. We chatted with new friends again and one thing that happened was there were several that kept getting stuck in the elevator. We thought it was going down a floor and it was going up a few floors or not at all.

The night was going by a lot faster than we realized and we went to the ballroom to dance some more and have fun. One couple we were with had mentioned earlier in the night they were relocated from the water damage when they arrived earlier. As the ladies were hitting it off on the dance floor for a third time, the gentleman look at me and said “So you guys do indeed have a room here and weren’t relocated?” I mentioned we did and were staying just a short walk from the dance floor. We all took break to grab water and freshen up. At one point everyone was separated for the costume contest. The DJ was fun, but he let the costume contest drag on for way too long and it started killing the mood and excitement. The ballroom was slowly clearing out. We found ourselves on the party floor again and hadn’t seen our new friends for sometime. We noticed several doors that were “open” and couples going at it. We enjoyed the sights from the hallway a few times. But one thing that we realized was missing was a dedicated play area that many lifestyle clubs and some hotel takeovers do have. Sure everyone has their rooms and that can be and was fun. But with a larger open play area, its very easy to transition from chatting, flirting, touching to, a whisper “we are going to the play area, you are welcome to join us if you are comfortable” . Plus we really enjoy watching, being watched and being around the sexy sounds and sights.

Overall, we had a great time and we are looking forward to attending more hotel takeovers from the same organizers as this one and some other similar hotel takeovers that do indeed have a play area. The next morning we got ready and decided to hit a very authentic ethnic restaurant. As we are walking out of our room, there is a younger twenty something guy who was working at hotel night before. He was personally telling couples “have a good day” with this big grin. We laughed and Mrs. Swanilla was like “Oh I bet he saw some fun things last night compared to a normal day at work”.

One thing we really enjoy about the lifestyle and travel in general. Is that we try to enjoy the city we are in. A fun restaurant, museum, waterfront, concert in another city the night before/after a lifestyle event. It’s a great way to see other parts of the Cities/States/Countries you are visiting. It doesn’t work out every time, but we do try to add some local flavor to our sexy lifestyle fun.

Hugs & Kisses

Mr. & Mrs. Swanilla

PS – a few days after the party, we received a message from the sexy couple that we got separated from. They told us they thought we went to another room and they went back to their hotel they got transferred to. We realized that we missed their clue about going to our room. Just goes to show that you never stop learning and even being part of the lifestyle for some time now, communication is always important!